I might be irritating

Some people need to understand that there are work friends and then there are friends. And work friends can give you advice . . . like be more happy and accept your lot and "I just do whatever I want and I don't get in trouble" but if they don't accept you for who you are . . . then they cannot be "friend" friends. I'm sorry if I have high expectations, I'm sorry if I want people to do what they say and say what they mean, and I'm sorry if I'm not happy enough for you . . . but, you know, we could just NOT be work friends.